Intimate conversation is the purest form of admiration. It is not just about being physical. It is the deepest way to connect with someone you admire. It is about being strong enough to put down your guards and open up your heart to reveal your soul. While it is not easy to connect with someone at the deepest level, with a right approach you can definitely touch the heart of a one you love.
Tell her that her smile is beautiful:
All a girl wants is a guy, who calls her beautiful, not just sexy. All a girl wants is a guy who loves her heart, not just her body parts. While there is no shortage of guys who flirt with her every now and then, she wants a guy who finds her sweet without looking at her curves. When a girl knows that you find her loving, inside and out, she will give much more love than she receives.
Get lost in her eyes:
There is a little world in those big eyes. They say that the eyes are the windows to one’s soul. Eyes never lie. Look deep into your girl’s eyes. You will experience that those are the eyes that do most of the talking. The longer you will be able to gaze into each other’s eyes, the more comfortable you will be in each other’s company. If you focus on the eye contact you will be able to crack any barriers that are left in your relationship.
Talk about the topics that a woman like:
Women are naturally emotional. If you want to have an intimate conversation with a girl, it is essential to let her do a lot of talking. On the subject, she is inclined to. All you have to do is to break the ice with the topics that will arouse her emotional state, like her childhood, her dreams, her passions, her fears. When you include such emotional topics in your intimate conversation , she is most likely to open up and you will be able to know a lot of new things about her.
Be a good listener:
women are instinctively sensitive. They feel more connected to the people who know them better. This makes it very important for you to carefully listen when a girl talks about her life and herself. When you ask questions about her life and she shares details from her life with you, it builds a strong bond between you two. The more you listen, the more you know about her. The more you know about her, the more likely she is to think that you understand her. The key to attracting women isn’t to talk more, it is to learn how to talk less.
Tease and bring out her playful side:
One of the easiest ways to take an intimate conversation to a fun and flirty level is to begin to tease your girl. Remember the good old playground days? The girls find it amusing when their guy teases them. The might act that they get angry but secretly every girl wishes for a healthy, fun-filled relationship. So whatever worked on the playground is equally effective in the relationship too. You can also play fun games like “truth or dare” or confessions to kindle the sparks.
Follow these simple cues and when you do, do it with all your heart. Once someone aptly said, “there’s nothing more intimate in life than simply being understood. And understanding someone else.”