Rejection is awful and let a person cringe with the worst feelings. Yes, if you open your heart to someone and get sheer negligence in return it can dishearten you and shake your very boundaries. After all, a person always lives for love. Getting rejection in work is still bearable, but the chords of heart when get hurt it are more disheartening.
However, it is not difficult to get over from rejection; all you need is a stable mind and all the perseverance to get yourself back on the track.
If ever you in life receives it and come across questions like “Am I not good enough?”, “What did I do wrong?”, “What could I have done better?” then, you know what rejection feels like.
It is a horrible thing that makes your self-worth question and makes you feel incompetent and unsure. You question your looks, qualities and everything that matters. For better or for worse, it changes you. It pinches you. It haunts you and let you cry at times.
Do not attack yours self-esteem, as it plays directly with the same chord. The power of it lies on the way you perceive it. For good, take it normal and do not let yourself get affected completely with it.
As it is normal, that after heartbreak you feel demoralized and disappointed do not let these emotions overpower the confident you. Boost yourself up and remain elated. It is just a relationship that fail your life is here to conquer many more barriers. Do not distress your head with these uncanny low emotions as it makes a harsh effect on your personality. Emotional stress also leads to depression and others ailments.
Balance your behavior and act with a valiant heart. As it is always easy to say than implement, but nothing is impossible. Even Rome was not built in a day, take time and overcome all the fears that you are facing. The vicious cycle of hurt starts with extreme grief and your efforts to sadden it more, makes it intense.
Do not let yourself be acquired by the lull of loneliness, as it attacks you more with the grief of it. It makes the hurt one even hard to overcome. Surround yourself with cheerful mates and dwell in the joyous journey of life that is offering much more.
At last make peace with the person you are. You are no way lesser than anyone, and bind with this belief. Worth your self-esteem and learn to be happy in your skin. If you make your soul stronger no one ever can hurt you. Just be comfortable with yourself and know your qualities. You are the best admirer of your personality then why you need someone else’s approval.
Understand when someone rejects you, it’s their loss not yours. Love and admire yourself as you have a long journey to travel, it is just the beginning.
Love yourself, stand up and deal with it bare faced.